Hi Guys i posted this on the MGTOW-forum but maybe this is the better place.

These are some of my findings ... feel free to discuss, criticize and add your own thoughts:

-The opposite of Love isn't Hate (or Fear or another emotional reaction) ... it's the absence of emphaty, a complete disinterestedness or in other words, if you can truly say IDGAF.

-If someone cheated on you, you're not heartbroken ... you have a betrayed heart which won't trust another one in the same way as before ... and that isn't sad, it's just a natural defence mechanism like "be careful around open fire"

-The only thing we can be personally sure about and what makes us rare in this universe ... we are alive and there is a will to live in all lifeforms ... so the miraculous meaning of life is just to follow your will to live ... and there is not a right or wrong way to do so-just stay alive ... if you loose your will to live you either doing it wrong or you are close to becoming stardust again (close to death)

-You don't owe anybody anything ... but if someone helped you and act like a true friend, help him back in the future and be a true friend to this person ... the success story of mankind is a story about coexistence and cooperation ... this ability made us the dominat species on this planet not the "survival of the fittest" ... maybe mankind is on the wrong path we will see in the future ;)

-Nobody owes you anything ... don't expect an reward if you do something "nice" ... if you do so, do it cause you like yourself being nice to others not for expecting acknowledgement

-Your attitude towards life must be your personal creation ... only you can tell you what lifestyle let you have a peaceful living (short: only you know what makes you happy) ... don't follow anotherones attitude ... learn and adapt don't blindcopy

-A too high entitlement towards yourself is one way into depression imo ... set yourself some (reachable) goals and work on them constantly ... as a reminder i recomment Ernest Hemmingways famous quote: “There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” or if you more in Popculture watch "Hajime no Ippo" ;)

-There is no Right or Wrong; Good or Evil; Black or White. I try to live in the shady grey of reality.

Ok i stop here and watch if someone likes to add some thoughts and insights of their worldview.

This is not my native language ... so I'm sorry for every mistake and uncertainty ... feel free to correct me ... always happy to learn