In my experiential phases of LTR/Married Red Pill I have often gotten caught up in the What? and not focused on the Why? This interpretation stagnated my understanding of principles until recently. I have crossed the bridge of understanding how important the Why? is. Contextually, the What? has been Game and behavioral modification, Hypergamy, etc. Incidentally, the What? used the other party, in this case, LTR, as my mental point of origin. As I have evolved to understand these principles from Why? as opposed to what, I have been able to take more ownership of my actions.

The more depth of understanding and internalization that I have with a principle, the easier it is to employ, and will often be done unconsciously. Once I began asking myself the question of Why? consciously, the hamster dissolved and my actions were led with purpose and with a desired outcome in mind, thinking from the end, if you will..

An example of the What? are specific tenets of Game. But to understand Why? that tenet achieves the results that I want has opened up room for exploration and a deeper understanding of myself and sexual dynamics in my LTR. For instance, I had known that when my woman backs off, then to mirror that, don't chase her or look for validation, so I backed off in a more mechanical way, which stirred up anxiety for me, uncertainty, etc. For me, the Why? is because I want to maintain polarization in the relationship and I enjoy fucking her that much more when she comes back from her self-imposed timeout.

As Tony Robbins noted, "The quality of your life is in direct proportion to the quality of questions that you ask yourself."

It's good to know what to do, it's even better to know why to do it.

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With TRP, I have been granted a palate, and choose from it, much like a painter. Moreover, the stroke of the brush is also an important nuance, e.g. levels of dread.

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The What? seems to be static, while the Why? is more fluid, reflecting one's station in life.

Understanding the paradox of this has allowed my understanding of LTR Game to be a lot more palatable and applicable.

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