There seems to be a theme this week on shit tests.

I'm new to the red pill. I've been working on it for 6 months now. Making progress with my body. Sex has been pretty good up until the past week.

It seems that my wife is trying to lapse back into her old patterns of behaviour to test my congruence.

My wife has been giving me a heap of shit tests over the past week. I sucked it up for a few days not wanting to rock the boat as we were on a really nice family holiday. At the end of the holiday, I told her enough was enough and I wouldn't tolerate the shit tests. That was sunday.

Monday and I'm checking the bank accounts and there was a transaction for something that I didn't know about. I'm the breadwinner and my wife is the primary care giver for our boys. I asked her about this transaction and she wouldn't tell me what it was for. I set a hard boundary and she lost her shit.

She called me up saying I had no right to question how she spent the money. I said it is within my right to know where our money is spent. She angrily hung up on me.

I waited a couple of minutes and thought fuck it. I'm not putting up with this bullshit. I texted back.... "you're so sexy when you are angry"

She replied about an hour later and said. " I love it and hate it that you sent me your text message. X We need to sort out a few things about money"

Holy shit.. there it is... set a hard boundary and then call bullshit on the shit test and she backed down just like that.

Own your shit and call bullshit on the shit tests. It works.