It's official, you guys are awesome. I'm learning some great stuff from all of you by lurking here. Thanks!

I found RedPill by way of a comment posted to /r/deadbedrooms, where I was lurking because it explained exactly what was going on in my marriage. From /r/theredpill, /r/marriedredpill was a natural progression.

I had already been doing some SMV basics: bicycling and weight lifting, controlling my calorie intake to control my weight. It made me feel great, but it didn't add sex.

Once i became aware of them, I stopped failing shit tests. From my wife, they were very rare (one per week, maybe), and very mild. But I had been failing then, reducing her attraction to me. Now I don't point then out, I simply don't 'nice guy' and comply with those particular requests. The sex started coming back right after.

Now I'm learning from the folks here at MarriedRedPill what married game and married SMV can look like. You folks have great experience and I'm applying it and it is working.

Victory story: I've taken my wife out on my own dream date twice in the last week: Bookstore to buy Pathfinder RPG supplies, then desert out with dinner conversation - half about us and half about Pathfinder RPG, and then home for sex.

I'm not saying buying and discussing Pathfinder is even a remotely good idea for a date; I'm just saying the rest of the stuff I'm learning here had allowed me to hold frame and show value while introducing my wife to the one hobby I thought I would never get her interested in - all while creating a date she enjoyed enough to suggest repeating.