My wife initiates sex two or three times per week. Whenever I try to initiate it I much more often than not I get shot down. I’m horny 25 hours per day so whenever she comes at me I accept. The only way to change the dynamic would be to say no to her which is hard because I love fucking my wife. She seldom comes anymore but only wants me to go down on her once a month or so. I hit that shit hard every time multiple positions but if she isn’t coming I get restless and it bothers the fuck out of me. I can’t help but feel inferior or insufficient.