For starters thank you for keeping this community alive, This is my first post in it.

I had a wonderful discussion with a gentleman from here, in case you wish to read it here is the link.

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/kkdo4d/when_female_privilege_backfires_this_completely/gh2ikmt/?context=3

Without degrading its context, I believe that we need to clarify some things about the current situation with feminism and the "equality" that feminists wish "to impose to patriarchy".

Given how most of them refer to "the oppression of patriarchy".

Let's clarify some things about patriarchy, oppression, and equality.

Patriarchy, is a very, very specific term, according to wikipedia here its definition:

Patriarchy is a social system in which men hold primary power and predominate in roles of political leadership, moral authority, social privilege and control of property. Some patriarchal societies are also patrilineal, meaning that property and title are inherited by the male lineage.

This doesn't make any sense whatsoever.

  1. The law system and the military system is full with women.

  2. Moral authority: The law system is clearly supporting women to an insane level.

  3. Social privilege: Check olyfans for a "man social privilege". LOL.

  4. Control of property: Check bezos wife for control of property.

These are just examples out of the millions and millions example that we can bring to the table from everyday life to politics, finances, social justice, that irrefutably disprove all the claims of all the feminists in the world.

However, they deny all these, and remove themselves from reality. But why? Let's analyze it.

One of the reasons why there was much more harmony at the older times is that every person was coexisting in a system that was making sense, and his privileges and authority, were based on his responsibilities and what he/she was offering to the collective.

What feminists offer to the collective currently? Drama? Justice? Revenge against the women of 1980?

Wrong.

None of those reasons are the real "whys" they are behaving like they do, they ignore reality as much as they do, or they have the insanely radical beliefs they do.

The real reason is that, just like every other human, from every other country.

They were given too much liberty and they never learnt how to appreciate it.

Disclaimer: I am not advocating towards imprisoning women mentally/physically/ whatever.

The whole insanity of feminism to begin with didn't start with the actual-women rights - based organization which was the old feminism. Which did make a lot of sense, no doubt about it.

Because to be completely fair, some men abuse their authority towards everyone, not just group.

So after we crossed the part of the social- equality, we jumped in the wagon of social-progressiveness.

That was the deadly mistake. And look at what happened because of it.

Gradually concepts like religion/ethics/morals were sacrificed in the shrine of progressiveness and liberty, and the narratives were mostly based on the oppressive part of the traditionalism/ patriarchy/ religion/ men-supporting society, blah blah. Bs.

To be objective here, there was some oppression and there's no doubt that many abused their authority which ended up becoming a miscalculation in the equation of social harmony. But that doesn't justify this borderline madness in both the law system and the society that's completely biased towards women, at all.

Now about the feminists, we're using reddit which is both owned and mostly used by radical leftists, who are practically no different than extremists, however let me tell you this:

Whether feminism is right or wrong, or whether equality between the two genders is correct, or whether inequality is correct there's one thing we can confirm.

Feminists don't care about equality at all. And everyone who supports them doesn't belief in his/her own beliefs at all

When someone is so radicalized against a specific group of people, he's beyond saving, I very much doubt that any woman or man can reason with them any time soon.

We should forget about compromising or negotiating with them completely, and certainly not attempt to fight the system that supports them.

And educate and distant ourselves from them as much as we can.

Daughters, wives, friends, don't increase their numbers. That's the best you can do at this point.

My apologies for the long rant, thank you for your time and attention.