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Except that my mom remembers her wanting to be a stripper and thinks it’s strange that I remember that...
also the neighbor girl, their mother was a counselor, and like I said I remember that being the last time that shit happened. Not sure if neighbor girl told her parents and maybe told my parents and I’m pretty sure I remember the other girl that participated at least one time too.
But no, I really don’t want anyone to know about it. I just want her to admit to it so I can forgive her and not carry this shit with me that she thinks is hilarious. Like I said, way more to this story but not getting to that here.
Another thing,.. around that age of 5 I was molested by my 15-16f cousin I think. But can’t get into that until shit with sister is resolved so,...
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AGAIN, just want her to admit to it so I can forgive her. I don’t blame her now for shit she did when she was 10, she was a kid, she didn’t know the damage she may have caused.
But now that she’s 35, she does... and more to the story dumbass but none of your business. I think you’re commenting senselessly after I’ve already answered your question.
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Yeah I figured I’d get that response but again, never felt like a victim until she started denying it and I’m afraid a counselor will just give all this more power. Rehashing some shit that happened a quarter of a century ago that I really don’t want to think about. Me going to a counselor just increases this victim narrative that I refuse to champion.
Should I write her off is my real question?
I don’t want this to be any bigger than me anonymously writing in some chatroom. But her admitting it will change everything about my relationship with her. I’ll move from being angry with her to just feeling sorry for her again.
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