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[–]soulsq 3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's already hard for western girls to find husbands at 30 yo, let alone for muslim girls, because of how much virginity is important for us. She seems like a nice girl, hopefully she finds her desired husband.
[–]submit3r 2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yah that was honestly my vibe too.
Not all 30 yo girls are hoes and gold diggers.
[–]Beyondthet 3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Of course not. But they have been given the wrong advice to wait until they are older to marry. When if they were told to marry when they were younger, the quality of their prospects would have been better.
[–]Beyondthet 2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's already hard for western girls to find husbands at 30 yo, let alone for muslim girls, because of how much virginity is important for us.
I wouldn't say so. There's plenty of simps around who she will marry for a divorce settlement paycheck. Same with Muslim men. Many of them don't believe a girl's virginity or her past is even important. Even though, we know from the Prophet pbuh and the Sahaba it is important.
She seems like a nice girl, hopefully she finds her desired husband.
I really hope she does. It really sickens me to the bone when good people have been misled.
[–]DarkNights292 1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Literally nobody in the world wants a western girl. Maybe because of their looks? And they still don’t look good. They are mean, high maintenance, nagging, fat, etc.. list goes on. It’s why many western men are going for an petite, cute, and virgin Asian wife.
She seems like a really good person too. This is what happens when the Muslim community gives good women bad advice. You either go the career route or marry young. You can't have your cake and eat it too.
[–]leopardinstinct 3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Guys prioritize looks and youth over education and wealth. Feminism is the blue pill for women, had she prioritized her looks and femininity she would have easily had many guys tying her down long ago
You hit the nail on the head brother. I don't know why the Muslim community today continues to ignore this fact. It's widely accepted for a woman to desire a wealthy husband but it's frowned upon for men to desire a young attractive spouse.
The truth of the matter is, this is the urf (the tradition) the people in our society follow and have always followed throughout history for that matter because it is biological for men to be attracted to young virgin women. Why else do you think the Qur'an promises men 'young virgin women' (hoor Al ayn) in Paradise and not old women, 'intelligent women?' Lol.
[–]leopardinstinct 2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They’ll shame you for wanting a younger woman saying a real man does marries older women, a real man marries a single mother and so on. Some “religious” figures on social media are slowly doing this otherwise they’ll lose their female followers
[–]ryanreynolds5433 2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She seems like a really good person too.
Indeed. Problem is brainwashing. The person who commented her about her career, I bet she doesn't want to hear about "career" instead she wants tips on how to find spouse. Some people dont get it.
The person who commented her about her career, I bet she doesn't want to hear about "career" instead she wants tips on how to find spouse.
He didn't get a response for a reason lol.
[–]-MagicAcid- 1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Niceeee. More women to pay taxes so that they can fund my fun and minimalistic lifestyle. Keep working girls, I appreciate the support.
I wouldn't talk bad on her for the simple reason that she seems sincere. She honestly believed she was doing what she was supposed to do. If anyone is to blame here, it's the Muslim community for giving her false hope and terrible advice (as always.)
The issue of a woman's youth and beauty are not pressed in these marriage subs enough and they SHOULD be because girls naively feel like well, looks ain't everything in Islam right? Well, no it's not, but if you expect quality suiters to marry you who have wealth and status and yet you can't even offer him an attractive version of yourself? That's a lowball offer.
I do hope she finds someone who meets her expectations. Aameen.
[–]bedaking 1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
She sounds like a really religious and kind person. How she really is in person we can't really know. But we do know this she has pointlessly maximized her abilities that no man cares about - Women's career.
But in gaining so, she has lost 1. Youth, 2. Fertility and 3. Beauty - All of which men prioritize over anything. Considering her rejections - probably she might not be genetically blessed in the looks department to start with. But still the point stands - All women loose these three points after they hit 23. She would have more chance at success at a much younger age.
Now, most women spitefully doubles down on their mistakes once they reach a older age and are unsuccessful at mating. They start propagating higher marriage age - "Be Mature", "Find yourself", "Be stronk independent wahmen".
That makes the majority of leftover women - very spiteful creatures. If she could not have successful relationships, nobody should have it. MuslimMarriage is full of unsuccessful women promoting such ineffective advises. I just hope she isn't one of them. Allah sees and knows everybody.
[–]Beyondthet 1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
MuslimMarriage is full of unsuccessful women promoting such ineffective advises. I just hope she isn't one of them.
I fully believe she is sincere. Not only because of her mention of how much she prays and how much pain she feels, but also because at the end she asks for serious advice. She doesn't want anyone to cushion her ego. Just wants people to tell it as it is. And obviously no one on mm has the testicular fortitude to do that lol.
[–]Bamzibeyrek 1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is really sad to hear from a good person. I mean she could still find a good guy at that age but after this it will become way harder.
[–]TrynaBeTheBest 1 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That women seems good in heart
it's probs her parents who put this whole feminist "get a career its 21st century" in her head
[–]DarkNights292 2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Babies over education.
[–]TrynaBeTheBest 2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
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