One of the stupidest things that exist is to believe that a straightforward objective question will result in an equally straightforward and sincere answer with and absolute truth valor.

When I tell my colleague that I BELIEVE her girlfriend (my sister) are going to cheat on him, I'm speaking based on her attitudes, her story, and anything else I know about her. Meanwhile, he disagrees based only on her answer to the question "Would you cheat on me?" — where her answer is obviously an "I wouldn't".

It's ridiculous. If the answers were ALWAYS true, then all the world's problems would already be solved. For example: It would be enough for the government to ask people if they are going to commit crimes, then arrest those who answered "yes". Simple like that. But guess what: people lie (and, more commonly, people say things without knowing whether they are true or false — and that is something totally human, normal and acceptable. I'm not criticizing this, I'm just criticizing people who take answers as being always representing the Truth. THIS is ridiculous).

If this bluepilled theory of "answers = truth" were true, then the act of cheat itself would be impossible because we would all know who would cheat and who would not by just asking... so we all would be prepared and so on.

So, what I have to say, is "the sky is blue", or in another words: "people's attitudes say more about them than their words. Believe in attitudes, in crossed information, not only in simple words."

You know what a woman who wouldn't cheat on you are going to say? She's going to say "I'll not cheat on you".

But you know what a woman who would actually cheat on you are going to say? She's going to say "I'll not cheat on you". Both are going to say the same thing equally.

You will NEVER ever find a person who will say to you what kind of crime they are going to commit. The criminal and the innocent are going to say except the same (which is anything that is considered right to say, that is socially acceptable etc like "We are not going to commit crimes).

And, finally: Yes. She actually did cheat on him yesterday (I told him that she would like last week). He still bluepilled cuz he believe I just figured she would cheat on him out of sheer luck 🙄

That's all. Stay safe.