Even tho I’m nowhere close to a virgin, I pretty much exclusively like to date virgins for LTRs. For Hookups idc. Met a girl and am dating her. She’s still a virgin and weve tried having sex but just haven’t gotten there yet because it’s painful for her. We plan on trying again soon. However, she’s given oral sex to about 6 guys. Half while she was in a relationship. Half were hookups.

I don’t want to take her virginity if I’m not going to stay with her and I’m not sure how to feel about the oral sex thing. She’s okay that I have a high body count and I’ve explained to her RP concepts around pairbonding, sex, and it’s results on future marriages.

What should I do? It’s pretty fair to find a girl who’s a virgin but not sure if I should accept the oral sex thing. Please answer without criticizing. I have standards and preferences.