Just to be clear. Attractive doesn’t automatically equal success however it does avoid any struggling.

If you’re unattractive you’re better off taking a break to looksmax. If you’re a guy it doesn’t matter how set your life is, take it from me I see virgin PhDs all the time.

If you’re a man or women who already looksmaxxed and still don’t get what you want then you have to decide to settle or voluntarily take yourself out the market for life.

TLDR: Dating is for attractive people only. If you’re not you can still try but you’ll never be viewed as an equal to your partner. If you were only more self aware of your social environment from a young age, then you in middle and high school would’ve been working on your gym and dressing skills back then.