This is something I never fully understood. I always see online women staunchly defending the idea that "slut shaming is bad" but when I think about it I really don't get it.
If men on average don't like women who hook up a lot for long term marriage, then why is it wrong to say that slut shaming is bad? because IT IS....??
The double standard exists for men and women for a reason. For the average guy, hooking up with an average girl is NOT an easy feat, whereas a girl can pretty much hook up with soooo many guys compared to her "looks match".
This key difference is why women being "sluts" is inherently a bad thing, and a guy being a "slut" is completely different because that man must have some KEY trait that DRAWS women to him since naturally they are far more selective.
And a women who sleeps around just tells guys that she is easy and doesn't really respect herself, might even have male validation issues, self esteem issues etc etc.
a girl sleeping around really does not benefit her at all, unless her sole purpose is short term gratification
I genuinely just want to understand from women why you think its wrong to slut shame.
