Why Should We Change?

[deleted] · 2014-07-26T15:52:03+00:00

If you can use TRP without being a massive twat, I don't care what you do, but the anger and resentment of women on there is completely messed up. TRP may be a reaction to the current culture with the issues it has, but it's efforts are misplaced. If there is a gap in understanding when it comes to dating, TRP makes that gap wider, rather than smaller. Basically, I can't think any possible way that TRP can work in relationships for the vast majority of people, because what is preaches is basically "communicating with your partner isn't productive". That is a recipe for dead relationships.

shitpostwhisperer · 2014-07-26T15:52:37+00:00

Hello, many RPers are in long term commitments and are happy.

Yeah, I don't think so. I know one IRL and he's always on the verge of mental break downs and TRP pretty much killed his relationship.

My question is to bluepillers who seem to be very offended by this, why is it a problem?

Huh? Why would someone be offended at someone else and their relationship if it works for them? I think you're fluffing this point too much. It's more that people find the TRP disgusting, ignorant, and sexist to men and women. Plenty people have nice relationships without it.

Different people have different lifestyles and if ours works for us why is it wrong?

Keep your relationship. Like I said I really think you're equating hate for TRP (which is pretty warranted) with hate for their relationships. If they're not overly abusive I don't think many people will care.

This seems to e the one thing that jut makes no sense to me about TBPers anger,

What do you mean by "blue pill anger?" Do you mean the sub blue pill? Or are you talking about anyone that could disagree with TRP? The latter is a fuck ton of people.

there are redpillers in happy marriages or LTRs, what's the problem?

That's actually a rarity from what I've seen. Most posts I've seen about TRP is about it destroying relationships or putting them on rocky ground. I think someone in TBP is keeping track and last I checked the number is in double digits (of failed TRP relationships) and I've read a couple TRP blogs from women who admit their relationship isn't going well. Can there be exceptions? Sure. But I'd think most TRP relationships are doomed to fail unless both partners are 100% into the weird captain/co captain mindset perpetuated by TRP. I personally find TRP relationship dynamics dysfunctional and ignorant, but ignorance can be bliss. I find that TRP is more for people that need some sort of guidelines/rule-set to run their relationships/sex life because being themselves didn't work out for them.

Title	Why Should We Change?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	July 26, 2014 3:44 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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