Books on frame control

Sci-FiJazz · 2018-11-26T19:48:33+00:00

This was new to me. Did a web search and 'The Rules of The Game' came up. From that:

A frame is the context or belief through which a person, situation, or a conversation is perceived.

If you look at the big picture of the techniques in The Game, frame control is the confidence of being the master of your own reality, and treating everyone else as a lucky guest in it. If you can embody that in a charming, humorous, and congruent way, the rest of the attraction process is easy.

As a small-chunk example of reframing, if someone bumps into you accidentally and apologizes and you ask them, “Did you just grab my butt on purpose,” you are now in control of the frame. And the frame can then be one of flirtation or harassment, depending on what outcome you want.

As an Emergency example, I think of the principle I learned at Tracker School: “A fleeing animal is a vulnerable animal.” The final video in the playlist below will show you what happens when the fleeing animal stops running, turns around, and decides to “change the frame.” Even in the animal kingdom, frame control ensures survival.

Not really my cup of tea to act like everyone around me is an extra in my movie. I see people like this and hate them almost immediately. But anyways, yeah. frame control seems like some basic LSD trip-set stuff. And, there are probably hundreds if not thousands of books about how to control interactions and (attampt) to force your worldview and outlook on the group or individual you're with. Most of the time it just comes off as obvious. I prefer to just be a human person and give and take. people will make up their own minds about who the 'asshole' is and whose ideas are better.

I just personally think it's wrong-headed and pretty much a cancer for any group to have two or more of these egotistical people placing themselves before the mission of the movement or group. Just be good at what you do, push back when you need to, point out when others are putting themselves before the mission, and just generally be a clear glass and someone that good deeds and righteous action can flow through...not the center of focus.

As someone else said though, really depends on the group.

StrictQuit · 2018-11-10T06:40:35+00:00

Depends on who you want to impress? A certain crowd or a specific person?

jimmywoody · 2019-02-04T15:36:55+00:00

It’s not about being egotistical, obnoxious, or an asshole. You clearly don’t get it. Maintaining your frame means you have goals in your life, to chase excellence, run a business, weight train, read a book, whatever it is to be who you are, without apologies, without changing your goals for your life. If you think that that requires being an asshole I am sorry you feel that way. Maybe you need to maintain your frame for a while. You can be open and honest about your desires for life without coming off as an asshole.

i-reddit-ck · 2022-01-06T04:51:48+00:00

Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff. Great read! Really gives you the blueprint to Frame.

Title	Books on frame control
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Date	November 10, 2018 1:10 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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