Could TRP & TBP be impeding on people's ability to understand real attraction? If people assume their arousal works by visual stimuli alone could that be a massive psychological hindrance in understanding what chemistry and attraction really are?

In TRP & TBP types of spaces people will argue that because women are the sexual selectors them becoming sexually empowered is the sole contributor to the degradation of social morals. I completely disagree though. I think women mimic the sexual style that men have already presented for us: Hypergamy; as well as superficial means of selection.

Hypergamy is entirely a masculine creation. Because hypergamy also implies aggression (initiation) which is usually seen as masculine behavior. Women's sexual disposition is commonly viewed as passive and waiting to be taken. Meaning women are seen as submissive by default.

That contributes to how women are ''whores'' for being aggressive sexually or taking initiative. Men who try to whistle blow about Lookism in hypergamy do so because they fear women will express their sexual agency in the same way a male would: superficially.

Evidenced in almost all porn and media where men are still expected to dominate and lead. They are also represented as animals who will fuck anything that looks good enough. This is an expression of fear of greed attached to sexual agency. It ties to consumerism and the consumption of sexual content in which a women becomes the object. As the 'second sex' that's part of why women don't have body autonomy because they are assigned value based on their looks rather than their ideas.

Hate towards women's sexual agency has to do with the fear that women will express their sexual agency superficially which the same way a male would if they were desired as much sexually as females are. If they had the marketplace power to sexually select.

Males have created this superficiality as the framework for hypergamy.

This has a massive effect on how men are not allowed to be weak or express emotions. It's viewed as unsexy. It creates a great rift regarding communication between genders. Men are afraid to express who they really are least they be viewed as weak & unsexy by females.

For all those reasons I think lookism is impeding on everyone's ability to understand what attraction actually is.

What do you think?

By TBP in the title I meant The BLACKpill btw.