Is my man really indifferent about having a child soon or does he just need the RP?

homo_homini_lupus · 2014-09-11T11:39:26+00:00

What the hell is this

nkadifa · 2014-09-11T16:43:48+00:00

I never saw these questions before, so here you are:

What is the problem?

Do I need to encourage my bf to be more red pill on this subject? Why is he indifferent to such an important and life changing suggestion?

What are your faults?

I am impatient, not always consistent and don't always give my bf time to 'process', but I am like that with everyone, even some of my female friends find me overwhelming sometimes.

Why do you think this problem manifested?

I think that if he does have a stronger opinion about this then he is afraid to express it and I do not like this response as I want our relationship to be equal with him as 'captain'. He knows I like him to take the lead. Tbh this idea I have is quite a big sell so I'll appreciate a very well thought out and confident rebuttal, much more than him just 'going along with what I want'

What steps have you already taken to try and resolve the problem?

I have spoken to him and 'pitched' my idea. I have given him space to think about it.

How long has this been an issue?

Not long.

Are you making a mountain out of a mole-hill?

I guess I might be making a mountain out of not wanting to start a family in my mid thirties....

How's your bedroom life right now? Are you taking care of his needs emotionally and physically?

I would say so. I am the aggressor most of the time in the bedroom. I want it more than he does and that has been an issue in the past. Its always been about 2x a week. He seems happy with me, as I am always take care of him first and I am happy with him.

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Title	Is my man really indifferent about having a child soon or does he just need the RP?
Author	nkadifa
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	September 11, 2014 11:20 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2g3ejk/is_my_man_really_indifferent_about_having_a_child/
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