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[–]TalkToHusband2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You are a guy, post on TRP.
[–]Hitman359[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Perhaps I will take you up on that advice, but even here I see it. Yep, I'm a dude. And you, probably seeking for other people to make this realization in some way, have recommended a wider audience than here as TRP has more subscribers AND would likely agree with my sentiments. You could have been a bit nicer about it though. I get that blunt statements like that are more likely to lead to action but it does earn you a point on the "dark triad" meter. Once you get enough of those with a person they'll believe you to be a narcissist/psychopath and bolt for an exit/ignore you if they're smart. I know I've racked up quite a bit of those in my life recently, as people tell me I'm going crazy or that I'm mean (i.e. please stop it we're begging/ordering you, we don't want everyone to see what you see).
It's everywhere, can't avoid it. The game doesn't care. Anything I can do to avoid the dreaded banhammer there? This little secret is a thing most people (even those at TRP apparently) don't want to be revealed to the general "masses". I even read a blog where the dude said you must never tell a girl about all this as that "changes the game" and that there's nothing sexier than a man who just "gets it" without any form of revelation from either side. That one must maintain "frame" without letting anyone (least of all their SO) in on what frame is in any way and how/why it works ever if you want to be happy.
I do not hold to that. I don't think anyone should hold to that. This is simply too important to not tell everyone. It's their life dang it, and they're all living it wrong! They're all going to end up unhappy and I hate seeing people unhappy.
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