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X-post from the redpill " my bf is too beta, help!"

Cumonovabby

December 9, 2014
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Title X-post from the redpill " my bf is too beta, help!"
Author

Cumonovabby

Upvotes 1
Comments 4
Date December 9, 2014 2:12 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2opmo7/xpost_from_the_redpill_my_bf_is_too_beta_help/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/x-post-from-the-redpill-my-bf-is-too-beta-help.165953
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My bf of 8 years is too beta.

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December 9, 2014
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[–]blondie_brownie 2 points2 points2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You said yourself that you're fighting him. How can he feel alpha in social situations if he isn't even king of his own castle? Consider letting him dictate the social schedule got a while, while you work on fully supporting him. Make sure you're not putting him down in public, even saying something small like "oh, he didn't want to come, but look at how much fun he's having right now!" could make him feel uncomfortable and unhappy in that social situation. Focus on letting him lead, both at home and in social situations.

[–]Cumonovabby[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I love your suggestions! I do put more pressure on him than I should, I'm trying to tone it down. It's just that there's this sports game I bought him tickets to (he, I, my cousin, and her bf), got Christmas. He wants to go but, the city it is in he feels is too "unsafe". It doesn't have the best reputation but I feel comfortable where we're staying.

[–]homo_homini_lupus 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Please resubmit after answering these questions :

http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1xk4sa/when_asking_for_advice_answer_these_questions/

[–]TempestTcup0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

fights me on social activities. I'm a RPW.

You are not RPW if you are fighting your bf on social activities.

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