I making this post describing how a man should be or at least try to be. So many men nowadays are either cowards, drunks, or losers. These men never have any goals, lack self awareness, let their girlfriend or wives destroy them financially and emotional. Especially in America men and teenage boys for that matter are addicts to porn or video games and that is their only life focus besides school and family. They don't aspire to make new innovations and inspire others. They want to do the least work and get hottest girls, best cars, and good jobs. Without putting in any real effort. We need to raise more real men.                            What a good man does?  A good man helps others without any reciprocation. For instance he may see a female walk into a 7/11 holding items in both her hands. A good man will politely and kindly hold the door for her and not brag about. He may graciously accept a thank you or other gifts. A good man does not brag about his achievements but he does appreciate his success. A good man does not blame others for his mistakes, he sees his mistakes and corrects them. A good man leads and betters the group by showing competence, confidence, and understanding. A good man always wants to improve his life( like getting promotions, eating healthier, jogging, lifting, participating in social events or actives, finding hobbies, utilizing talents, improve his dental hygiene, physical hygiene, and emotional state, and improve his bond with family). A good man never ever mocks or despises others with different beliefs but is open minded by them. A good man is calm in the face of evil or danger

A good man is gentle but firm when he does his actions and speaks his words. A good man speaks with grace and admiration. A good man respects and adores his wife’s beauty, brains, and success. A good man should always make good choices (because even the slightest yes or no could be life altering.) A good man has faith in others that have shown consist faith in themselves. A good man improves on his God given talents. A good man should never be clingy and learn how to do things on his own (like cook, clean, or buying a car). A good man never blames others for his misfortune. A good man chooses his friends wisely. A good man chooses a wife wisely. A good man is a good judge of character. A good man understands and appreciates his life no matter if it is good or bad. A good man follows passions and goals. A good man is very enthusiastic and optimistic even in the darkest hours.

 A good man is decisive and he does what he says. A good man loves learning something new every day. A good man takes a good care of his looks (whether it be better clothes or a new hairstyle. A good man does not let others take advantage of him willingly. A good man defends his wife when she is insulted. A good man teaches his children about respect, loyalty, and honesty. A good man never feels complacent and always wants to do more in life. A good man travels and experiences the world. A good man is a man who never ever stops dreaming.