excuse me if im a bit vulgar or the grammar is too informal, i was recently released from prison so my grammar is not as on point as it used to be, but please try to glean something from this, as my intention is to better men in an age where fake news is conflicting with reality, even from some "trp" theory itself. read this fast so it flows in your head better. i really feel this is just necessary to talk about.

first thing i must dispel is that you have to be an asshole to game hoes. in the beginning, and while context is still king here, you should generally appeal to her societal conditioning right off the bat. this means being nice and making her feel good, keyword feel good. NOT in the sense that you look like some dumbass simp saying "ahhh youse beautiful, stop dating assholes im a nice guy" or something foolish like that. just be nice to try to reel her in. the POINT is so she knows you arent a weirdo or a freak that doesnt understand societal rules. thus when her friends family and foe bat an eye towards yall, they see nothin outta the ordinary, just a nice swell upstanding guy. otherwise youre an asshole that will end the relationship in (a false accusation of ) rape. people are just like that, follow the rules or get stinkeye.

when you can successfully isolate her away from her peers, for example in a home or in your car, you can allow yourself to show your true intentions. the reasoning behind all this is that she doesnt feel embarrassed, that you start off on the right foot, that you give her something to look forward to (even if it was just a false promise), that you have a "different side" to you, and more.

i see more and more guys in real life try to "outalpha" each other, and use "alpha" tactics, and i facepalm everytime i see it fail horribly and they dont get why. YES negging can work, but if you dont actually understand why, dont do it! yes body language "tricks" can work, or you could just look insecure and self-conscious. and yes, ignoring her can work, or it could make you completely invisible because youre not as valuable as you think you are.

i can be "alpha", but i can be a "hopeless romantic" too because i know what works, i recognize contexts and i recognize whats on the table for the given chick in the given moment. im arguing my case that you shouldnt be so stuck in your ways, stuck trying to be stoic or whatever theory you subscribe to. i only subscribe to experience and results, so i expect a clash in ideas.

thoughts?