Summary

Matched with super hot woman on Tinder. Interesting insights learned.

Body

I finally took some time off and decided to go to a warm place where I could practice my favourite hobby. Wasn't really interested in meeting any women, but hell, I've got Tinder... so why not. I start swiping at my holiday destination, a few days ahead of departing, and next thing you know, I match with this absolutely stunning brunette. This is at least a level or two above the girl I would normally match with, the hottest girl I ever matched with. (A level is not a hotness point, btw.) A 9, at least. Flawless skin, gorgeous face, fit body, and seemed to have quite a lot of feminine poise... the full package.

No, this is not humble-bragging... I did not fuck her. The details are actually relevant for the Lessons Learned.

Of course, as this is not my "typical" match, I am skeptical. It's a bot. Nope... turns out it's not a bot. Oh, I get it... it's a pro. Strike two! It's not a pro. OK, hard game on!

 

We exchange texts and I am literally treating her like a dom treats his sub. The convo turns sexual pretty fast, and I'm being extremely unimpressed. I tell her to wait, I appreciate patience. She say she can only wait so much, to which I reply she should find a random dude, who'll spend the rest of the year thinking about her.

Needless to say, she's lapping it all up. I arrive a day before she leaves, and we are staying pretty close. All is working out!

So why did I not fuck her??

 

I asked her for her phone number. She ignores my text. I insist. She tells me she's on WiFi and her phone doesn't work.

At this point I'm not too sure what to make of this. Everything was going fine, and then playing hard to get? I am confused.

I ignore the whole conversation and go back to my stuff... A few days later it hits me! I did not read the subtext of the conversation correctly!!

 

If she gave me her phone number, she'd risk me turning into a text stalker. Randomly texting her out of the blue.

"Hey baby, the sex we had was great. We should get together again"

What if she has a beta provider, and receives this random text? Or texts. Even Billy Beta will get curious. Heck, if he's got some spine he'll dump her sorry ass, especially if he's seriously loaded. (In one picture she was sitting in a clearly luxurious setting.) She cannot allow this to happen... so she does not give her phone number up.

Ah, you say... but Billy can check her phone and see Tinder! Tinder can be un-installed, and/or all the matches removed!!! And that's what she did, cannot find her on Tinder anymore.

No. Trace. Of. Sex.

Even her girlfriends wouldn't know! Calculated, and cunning.

And that was my mistake - Not getting the full context, and insisting on the phone number. Instead, I should just have continued to talk on Tinder, and I would have banged her.

 

I promised the details of her hotness were relevant... As I said, this is not the type of woman I would normally match. It's not even the type of woman I would occasionally match! So why did she match me? She wanted dick, and I was good enough. Even more, I'm likely the best she could have gotten in this little island we both were. And that's the key point... to fuck a stunningly hot woman you don't need to be the best she's ever had or seen. You only need to be the best when she wants dick.

Of course, you also must not fuck it up like I did. Which is all the more important with super hot women, as they likely have MUCH more to lose from a mis-step.

Lessons Learned

  • If you are traveling, give her the easy out... keep the conversation on Tinder. (This is plausible deniability in action.)

  • You will never know how many dicks she rode and sucked.

  • You don't have to be the best to fuck her, you only need to be the best right now.