tl;dr

Seems that close to 90% of the posts here are on how to be an alpha. It doesn’t surprise me as to why people want to be that – due to the advantages that it gives you in the pussy department… but alpha – it is more than just looks and blind confidence. It is a state of being.

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Much of the stuff that I write down and believe comes from reflection and observation. Reflection from what women tell me and observation from their actual behaviours. You cannot really put your hand on alpha quality – I mean sure you can say Steve Jobs was an alpha but also are many of our criminals. You see alpha gives you entitlement with women and other men. If your ethics are not up to scratch and why would they be if you get mostly what you want from people; then you end up I prison. So there are many attributes that make an alpha: status, money, looks, height, muscle and confidence – everything has been stated. But what it mostly is – is a state of mind. You see how I said entitlement before? The difference between an alpha and everyone else trying to act like that – is that the alpha gets away with it. He will eat from other people’s food, his things will be untouched because they are his and his partners will feel intimidated of him and at the same time feel safe. Many alphas don’t have all the things in the list. Most of them actually don’t. And this obsession with looks and the tinder ratios that women pick men, only focuses on one aspect of things. You see an alpha does not care what makes an alpha. He doesn’t look for it and he doesn’t question it. Surely a person can always try and be even better. But it’s like with any other sport – when you try to think very much about the technique and what it is you are doing right – it is gone.

Summary

So in conclusion, don’t over think it. Act on your emotions and impulse and when that moment comes in your head where you question whether what you want to do is right or wrong when it comes to women, simply do it and own it. Alphas don’t care people say, but when they do they own up to it. No-one goes about life not giving a shit about anything. It is not what you do – it is how you do it. It is never what you say but how you say it. It is never about what you feel but how you feel it. So my advice to you is – own up to it all and enjoy.