Some self introduction first I am a freshly turned 20 years old , about to become a firefighter IT technician , in shape. (174cm 78kg 12% bf) and overall a strong framed guy.

I've been in a LTR with a girl for about 3 months. (submissive , virgin before I took it but had some red flags I overlooked)

She was 17 years old (yes she is legal here) so the gap between maturity was quite big considering I swallowed the pill almost 2 years ago and spent a lot of time since improving on myself.

She later turned out to be a social media addictaddict (red flag I was talking about) and always joked that I am cheating on her and one time going through my phone (I told her if she does it one more time she goes out flying so I don't think I lost frame).

During our relationship I was quite stoic , dominant , applied A&A a lot , her friends liked me but AWALT.

A marriage ceremony came and told her I couldn't attend it because of personal issues and later that day I had a very bad feeling in my gut knowing that something is coming and would you look at that , after 2 days of NC I get a text saying how different I am from other guys and doesn't want to hold me back.

Keep in mind that I already knew it was coming so it hasn't affected me in the slightest but it was interesting experiencing it at first hand.

How has your gut feeling helped you?