I have been lurking for over a year now and it never really clicked until just recently. I had been lifting and making a business, but still no luck at all. I am going to make the argument that being feared was the biggest thing I lacked.

Think about it. Everything women like has some connection to being feared. Tall dark and handsome? More scary than blond and definitely scarier than short people. Status? You can destroy somebody. Dark Triad? Too easy. Muscles? Check. Stoicism? Better than happy go lucky. And people who don't give a fuck are dangerous.

This all clicked after I shaved my head. I had pretty good full hair and even got complimented in it. But now I look like a skinhead gangster even though that is not my personality. And all of a sudden I get hit on twice in a row at different bars by decent looking women.

I really feel like I should just add some tats for effect. Seriously, it makes perfect sense.

Centuries ago, who do you think was a better protector? The rich guy everybody liked, or the guy nobody would ever fuck with? You're not going to go attack your local gang leader's girl in a million years.

I have a buddy who doesn't look like much, but he goes around talking about highly illegal stuff he has done, and will show you his martial art skills, and he slays pussy like no other.

So seriously, be feared. Make sure you don't look like a nice guy. Get stronger. Be stoic. Maybe take some martial arts classes. Don't smile too much like a silly happy jackass. Also don't be a dick from a place of insecurity. One of the fastest ways to look like a pussy. And study your laws of power.