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Can a virgin be seen as alpha?

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November 21, 2014
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Title Can a virgin be seen as alpha?
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Upvotes 1
Comments 10
Date November 21, 2014 11:58 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2mz7yj/can_a_virgin_be_seen_as_alpha/
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[–]ThirdLegGuy 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Asia, especially SEA, is famous for its skinny attractive girls being in lust with europeans. A tall blue-eyed blond with fair skin (scandinavian type) can easily land a 10/10 model here, and she will be all over him like a little dirty slut. And I'm not talking about typical thai bar girls here - think in terms of south korean models and k-pop stars level of looks.

If you're a european looking guy, have a thing for asian women and can support yourself financially working in the internet, seriously consider moving to SEA. Living is cheap there, and girls are really digging westerners (farangs). Your local SMV will double just by moving there.

[–]Daniel_Martin 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Your post comes off like you're just mad that american women don't throw themselves at you like Asian women.

[–]TRP Vanguard: "Dark Triad Expert"IllimitableMan 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And asian guys are mad that asian women don't throw themselves at them like they do at white men. It's a fucking vicious circle of jealousy.

[–]RealMFnGs 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

First chick I fucked was a sluuut, she approached me after I checked her off as in a relationship. She new I was a virgin, but could not keep her eyes/hands off me. So that's one case where it didn't matter but I do look like a mini Steve Cook. So start lifting and it won't matter, also shut your mouth when she ask. Let her guess/fantasies about your experience.

Keep you mouth shut and you'll keep her guessing til you screw her brains out and it won't matter then and don't forget.... Lift!

[–]R4F1 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Virginity is kind of a blank term. If a guy is trying to lose it but failing, than he likely isn't Alpha. But if he's celibate out of his own choice, then there's no reason he can't be Alpha. Though technically a celibate Alpha is called a "Lamda", while a celibate Beta is called a "Gamma", if I'm not mistaken.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Personally I feel like if you're a virgin for reasons other than religion, that's not intentional. I'm not doubting their existence, but they may have some problems they're compensating for and hamstering it as "their choice" to be a virgin. Sex is a pretty damn awesome part of life.

With that said, if you're a high value person(alpha), you shouldn't have a problem finding at least one girl to fuck that you get along with. Men can hamster too for why they're not having sex. Especially if they're incel.

[–]Perch11 points 11 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Never tell a girl that, she will lose interest in most cases. Just lie like anyone else would.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't need to lie, but i would say you don't need to reveal it either. Easier and better to just brush off the question than to answer it with a lie.

[–]ultrasuperthrowaway -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've been to 27 countries, there are fat people everywhere and there are beautiful people everywhere. Don't put Asian girls on a pedestal. Virgins are not Alpha.

[–]Mechbiscuit0 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Alpha is an attitude. It's how you perceive the world. Nothing gets to an alpha because his frame is solid and he wants for very little.

It's unlikely that someone would call an alpha a virgin because of the presence he gives off. It would be disrespectful to do so. That being said, when an alpha is called out on being a virgin, he would simply shrug and say "yeah." That would be enough because he would know that by taking away any kind of reaction the person was looking for, the words lose their sting.

Can you imagine what James Bond would do if called a virgin, even if it was true? His sly smile would subtly say;

"Why is this fuck-whit talking to me?"

The idea of spending money -- or worse -- time pursuing these fat or feminist American women seems alien to me.

I'm not American but I find this to be a defeatist attitude. There ARE good women out there, and if you can't find them perhaps you're not looking hard enough or in the wrong place. There's a good chance you're looking for the wrong thing. Don't write off 100% of women in a country just because you can't find them.

Do you know the difference between hot and beautiful? Hot women are attracted to shiny objects. They tend to be vapid and one of the same with whores. It's Saturday night and I'm here to find a bed that doesn't belong to me.

Beautiful women are attracted to beauty. What TRP champions is having your shit together and self respect. That is a beautiful thing which attracts good women.

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