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[–]theozoph15 points16 points17 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
The problem with early success is its fragility.
Your brother apparently fell into pussy when he was 14 through no more than dumb genetic luck, but he had no idea why, and no frame to maintain. This did him no favors, as I've seen many people fall into the same trap, whether academically, socially or sexually.
Early success is great for your confidence, right until the moment you fall on your first setback. Most often, you have no notion that success requires effort and can't fathom why the world is giving you a hard time now. You also don't have the discipline to push through the pain, and as your lack of effort compounds failure into failure, your self-esteem, confidence and mental fortitude erode, because they had no firm grounding in trials, experience and previous failures and errors.
Lesson : learn to love the pain of your early years. It might have saved you from a bleak future.
[–]voomer532 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very perceptive...good points...myself I had some early easy success with girls but really was clueless about why or how...that all dried up and it was a long road back....
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I agree, and he really undervalues his own worth and this girl is reinforcing it. What he doesn't know is that a man's value outside the bedroom is always higher than a woman's, so he lets her rule in everyday situations. He's feeling in love but she's not. She has the power. He will wake up to trp if he realizes how callous she is with his feelings for her. Then again, it may take a few girls shitting on him before he wakes up.
[–]theozoph2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well, he's only 19, hopefully he'll see the light before too long.
[–]Ovadox1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would actually hope that they shit on him. I think the more dangerous girls are the ones who behave perfectly in the beginning and hook the guy, then reveal their true faces. If he gets beat up bad early he'll suspect AWALT, and hopefully be saved from the worst of what nonTRP aware people experience.
[–]TheRedPillRipper19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The best way I've found to begin the process of swallowing The Red Pill is to be it. Show him what TRP has done for you. Six weeks is a long time. 30 days to train a new habit. I suggest you take your brother out. Show him TRP by demonstrating it. Create as much opportunity as you can in the next six weeks to demonstrate the benefits of swallowing the pill. Take him out to;
Tell him you're going to take him out and show him what you do instead of maintaining LTRs/LDRs. Flirt with and fuck as many women as you can. Share every part of the experience with him. Share with him texts, nudes and conversations with current plates and potentials on your roster. Show him your harem and get him envious, and interested; in what you've got going on.
Most importantly though; have fun. He's your brother. Share what you will about TRP (preferably by demonstrating) but the next six weeks is some good quality time you get to share with your bro. Make some awesome memories with him. Even if isn't yet ready for TRP, he'll have gotten something entirely more valuable than TRP lessons from his big bro: The time you spend together. That's worth more than any woman can give a man. If he comes to accept TRP philosophies then that should be the bonus, not the goal.
I'm assuming that you have your house in order here so you can expend this energy and invest this time in your bro. If not, then why are you worrying about your bro? Remember that to be Captain Save a' bro, first you have to be a good captain.
Have an upvote OP for the great title and good luck!
[–]1 Endorsed Contributormordanus2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your brother has seen women be total sluts. He's gotten them to do whatever he wants and has seen that side of them. He however is a man and we are all stupid in the sense that we seek after a unicorn. Most likely he met a girl that didn't want to put out for him and he said "At last I met a girl who isn't a whore. I found my unicorn." The only cure that I've seen for this is to realize that AWALT and he likely won't until he sees this girl be a whore for someone else.
Try to impress upon him that all women are like that and he needs to realize that for his own girl as well. There is no distinction between good and bad girls except for opportunity and time.
[–]vacationlife-1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you cant force him to change his mind and not be a betabitch
the most you can do, and only because he's your brother, is tell him he's fucking up and later he'll wish he listened to you. he still wont listen, but maybe after his world falls apart from this chick he'll think about what you said and change then
I can see how this little bitch acts up and mouths off to him and it has a big affect on his mood and how he acts.
just make fun of him and hurt his feelings. that's what bullying does to some extent, brings people's behavior back in line with the norm. so if you bully him, you may be able to make him doubt what he's doing and change his ways
thats your only hope honestly
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My penis weeps for guys who go to college in a relationship.
[–]circlhat0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There is a very delicate balance in human mind. I always stated Beta are made not born, there is no such thing as a fake beta or trying to be fake.
Beta aren't beta's because they can't get sex, when your entire community promote women over men , and its a honorable thing. You don't see how low you really are.
Unfortunately it can take years to get back, but you can get it back
[–]NeoreactionSafe0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
At that age things often don't last.
In the past, before pre-marital sex was commonplace, it might be possible to get into a marriage directly when you are very young.
These days the girls get empowered and doom the relationship before it even begins.
What have we learned from Red Pill?
Women are only turned on by traditional sex roles... meaning man above woman.
This girl is above your brother (bossing him around) so he's already lost the power struggle. She will become bored of her conquest and cheat on him.
In fact...
You could probably get her to cheat if you were able to set up the right situation. Get it all on video, then show your brother.
AWALT in high definition. It would be fun too !!!
[–]FleshPanda-5 points-4 points-3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
19 maybe turning 20 year old man dating a 16 year old girl? What state you live in because this could be borderline illegal. My younger brother is 10 years my junior and is starting college in the fall. I have him focusing on a career and working out, he also has a decent job. I try to keep him focused on school and banging college hos when he can. Life's alot easier 10 years later if you have found a career.
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