Summary: Siting onboard yet another plane that's taking me even further away from the biggest adventure of my life so far I couldn't help but think about what's next and will I ever top last few weeks. Of course I will as trying new things is like travelling - you always want more as with each time you learn the world has so much to offer. You just need to grab it.

 

If at any point in your life you'll find a thing that makes you feel like you’re standing on the edge – both excited and afraid of the jump I can only recommend leaping forward. If that thing can’t kill you (and most things in life can’t) then you’d be foolish not to follow your instinct. No great things come from doing familiar tasks in familiar environment. Embrace change, recreate yourself whenever you’re stuck. For some it will be a new career, for others something exactly the opposite like quitting a corporate job. Many people are charmed by travelling and various sports or even weight training. Almost all the guys I know that have been daygaming were changed by that.

 

Travelling is underestimated in that regard. The amount of new information your brain has to process, the interactions with different people, new places, experiences, sights – every single thing changes you whether you let it or not. I know no one, who having been to different countries, would want to stay comfortably at home. And you don’t even need all those exotic girls.

There usually isn’t a single event that changes your life dramatically. It's a series of small things that stack and only by looking back you realize what had happened. You only need to continue to put small stones on top of each other to eventually and inevitably cause an avalanche. Each new thing you do takes its toll and changes you. Usually in a good way.

 

You cannot predict what will change and that's exactly what’s scary. You know that doing things outside your comfort zone will result in failures and maybe even embarrassments. But if you can imagine yourself at the end of the road doing things that are unthinkable right now, if you have a vision - then I can only encourage you to follow that road.

Start with talking to "that girl at work" or "that girl at the gym". Go and visit a foreign country on your own. Start to talk to random girls and strangers, start to daygame and let the repetitive process mold you into completely different persona. In most cases you’ll emerge not as someone else but as a better version of yourself.

 

Lessons learned:

  • If looking back you don't regret that you haven’t started doing all those things years ago then you're doing something wrong with your life.
  • Don't be scared of failing. Be scared of staying where you are.
  • Change is usually good and there aren't that many things that can turn out bad for you.

 

These few paragraphs are a bit theoretical and nonspecific. You might want to read something more actionable and related to picking up girls - like my explanation of London Daygame Model.