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Choose Your Pain

chaseemall

January 27, 2018
55 upvotes
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Title Choose Your Pain
Author

chaseemall

Upvotes 55
Comments 8
Date January 27, 2018 4:39 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7tdqbz/choose_your_pain/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/choose-your-pain.226686
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Comments

[–]chaseemall[S] 28 points29 points30 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

This was too good for me not to share, and in r/consipiracy of all places.

Some other aphorisms:

Discipline = Freedom

Freedom hinges upon discipline. Financial freedom comes about with financial freedom. Free time comes with time management. A free society is only maintained by the virtuous, the disciplined. Jocko Willink has a book about this.

Aristocracy is Restraint.

To be an aristocrat of the soul is to have self-restraint, in taste, in appetite, in everything. To become an aristocrat of society one must first become an aristocrat of the soul. To maintain this aristocracy across generations, this self-restraint must be passed down, lest the prosperity accumulated by generations previous be squandered by the licentiousness of poorly-schooled progeny. One of my own realizations.

Life is struggle; fight or die.

Your orientation to the world. Struggle and pain are endemic to the human experience. Do you live with honor, accepting that the world is difficult, and you must take this difficulty as the thing to be overcome, or do you renege upon your own life? A distillation of a quote by a man who stood against time and the degeneracy of the world.

[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorVasiliyZaitzev12 points13 points14 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

50 y.o. guy here. I joke that I exercise so that, when I get up in the morning, I know why I hurt - except I’m only have joking.

Take care of yourself now, and you will be better off for it when you are older.

[–]BigMawsmidget10 points11 points12 points 8 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link

I saw that same post and was wondering when someone would bring it over.

Something to add onto choosing your pain if I can find the link it's a Jordan Peterson video about the "Man-child" some may have seen it before, but it hit me completely hard as if I got ran over by a truck.

Edit: found it

https://youtu.be/JjfClL6nogo

The part where he speaks about choosing your penalty/sacrifice is what hit hard.

[–]chaseemall[S] 9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"You have to pick your damn sacrifice. You don't get to not make one."

Beautiful.

[–]BigMawsmidget0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Literally TRP almost in a nutshell honestly.

[–]chaseemall[S] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There's no way the good professor hasn't seen some of this stuff. No way bucko.

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Or in the words of papa Peterson "pick up your suffering and bear it"

[–]AwkwardEmpath9 points10 points11 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Papa Peterson.. just.. pls no

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