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Let’s say you found the redpill for whatever reason you did(a bad relationship experience, someone told you about it, or just by coincidence) and start reading and internalizing the material. Soon you find yourself improving your life by lifting, eating clean, reading great books and spinning some plates, hell you might even begin you own first soft harem.

Everything is going great and you think you have it figured out. In fact things are going so good that you start reconsidering the idea of an ltr with your favorite plate and begin to let your guard down to become closer with her by sharing some personal stuff. You drop your plates and begin to pursue this idealization with this woman, who so far has done nothing more than fulfill all your wants and needs.

At first it’s all bananas in pajamas, you begin to feel the fulfillment of a deep connection with a woman. You start getting more comfortable with her so you become complacent. You slowly begin to stop hitting the gym as hard as you used to, your cheat days somehow turn into cheat weeks, and the overall personal improvement stops. Soon that submissive unicorn turns into a nagging bitch and the shit/comfort tests begin to rain on you.

Of course you, as a redpill master pass the majority of those tests with flying colors, but that doesn’t stop her from becoming more distant and one day she hits you with the “you are not the guy i once fell in love with” and drops you for the next best thing. What went wrong?

While you thought you were playing the game, you were playing yourself.

You never actually became who you were portraying to be with all that self improvement, you were just following the bullet points of a list to fulfill a blue pill fantasy that you thought you got rid of. When you actually got what your bluepilled heart deep down truly desired, you dropped the act, and it became evident to this unicorn that you were never really this cool and competitive “guy she fell in love with”. The cognitive dissonance caused by the idealized image she had of you compared to the real you is so great that triggers that light switch effect in her, convincing her that you never really were who she thought you were, that the whole relationship was a lie, meaning that all her investment was in vain, and that she never truly loved you. Her hamster already took care of changing the past of the whole relationship giving her a valid reason to drop you without any remorse because it was you who fucked up, not her.

Technically, you might have not done anything bad enough for her to end the relationship, but in her mind… she already painted you as the bad guy, meaning that she has a free pass to branch swing.

As a redpill man, you must understand that women are incapable of seeing themselves as the bad person, meaning that she will hamster away the blame to external reasons, never admitting or taking responsibility for their decisions.

Knowing this, your job is to develop a strong frame in which she can live comfortably without ever having to make any real decisions for the relationship, and learning how to create any context to provoke the necessary emotions in her to bring the desired behavior of your choice, because ultimately she will take the shape of the mold that you create for her.

And most importantly, to truly become a man worthy of admiration and respect for yourself. Not to do things for external reasons because if you are, you are living in the frame of whatever those reasons might be while deceiving yourself.