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[–]ModeratorPaperStreetVilla[M] [score hidden] 8 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
you all know the drill.
[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Any girl who makes you "wait for it", I guarantee it's NOT worth the wait.
She's testing you.
Her frame is stronger than yours because she's not giving sex, but you're giving your time and commitment. See how one sided that is? Get used to that.
Also consider how fucked up it is that a woman doesn't want to fuck you without any strings attached to it.
Contrast that to a normal relationship where sex is an enjoyable event for both parties and both should want to fuck each other for the simple reason you're attracted to each other.
There's a reason she's single and about to hit the wall. Guess what role she's trying to slot you into?
[–]GodLordPrince5 points6 points7 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She's not low in count. If she's alone with you, and she's not a virgin, she's putting out. You're just not taking it. She'll test you to see if you get emotional over her rejection, if you even consciously register it as rejection, and how aggressive and dominant you are. She wants to be conquered. Her brain has decided that you're not a conqueror, and that you're going to give her stuff - like money, time, emotional coddling - in return for her company.
Be a conqueror.
[–]bear_and_bull[S] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can you be more specific? I was cool about the whole not putting out, and I was constantly trying to get physical with her.
[–]Avyctes3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
28 looking to settle, just out of an eight year relationship. I'm betting that's the tip of the iceberg. She's probably got more baggage than an airport by now. Cut her off and make the bitch come to you. You are the prize, not her vagina. If she doesn't come back to you in a reasonable amount of time, go dark and cut her off.
[–]OGlancellannister7 points8 points9 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
All women eventually put out if you're the right man haha. Depends on what you want. To be honest, I'm not a huge fan of stringing women that age along, since you really are wasting their time. I'm usually honest with my intentions and it doesn't even seem to hurt the lay count. Usually they'll give me the mental equivalent of a sigh, realize I'm not provider material and sleep with me anyways and then move on.
When a girl sees boyfriend material, she's going to make you work harder for it, because you value something more, the more you invest to acquire it. By disqualifying myself for that role I've seen my results improve.
[–]Ltactics12 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just let her go. She seems pretty serious about .
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