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[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 12 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
This is how I got here. I had 90% of TRP down before I joined, but I still wanted the cute, nice LTR. Best looking girl I've ever fucked, exactly what you described - plus, I have to see her everywhere b/c we have a lot of mutual friends.
I stay positive by 1) Focusing on her negative traits (they do have them, even the best looking ones) 2) Building my SMV to where I could have more leeway to make mistakes with girls like that in the future and 3) Remembering that even the best woman in the world can't make you happy or fulfilled, you do that yourself. Women aren't the key to happiness, beauty fades, and you are heading upwards. 4) this being my favorite, remember that at one point she was really into you. So you know you can get a girl like that into you again, and next time know better not to fuck it up.
Probably most important is (although if you never fucked her, IDK) to be glad you fucked a great looking girl. You're stuck on her last impression of you, when she has had several. Even the relationships most worth keeping die down eventually. You had fun, you'll have more in the future. The problem is, the whole memory of the thing has been ruined for you because of your ego. Because it ended wrong, and she dissed you, you're agonizing over the entire story, how you fucked up, and you're thinking you can't get another chick like that. You now think she's better than you.
It can take some time to get over a girl you liked, or even just found attractive - you didn't get what you wanted. But once you separate her opinion of you from your opinion of yourself, you won't make yourself upset over it nearly as much.
[–]DarkSayed 3 points4 points5 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Rejection is not a bad thing. It means you're taking risks.
It's a special case of failure not being a bad thing. If you want to never suffer the pain of failure, sit at home all day doing fuck all staying safe.
I personally feel bad about not failing occasionally. It makes me think I might have missed opportunities due to not being bold enough.
[–]fakepizza 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sucking at something is the first step to becoming sort of good at something.
[–]Modredpillschool 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
/r/asktrp /r/trpgame
[–]newpopehere1 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
i had a similar experience had a girl interested in me go sour. Its due to many factors but the most important was losing frame and giving her too much attention.
Women can sense neediness.
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