Been in a serious relationship for 4 months. Took my time to see if it was worth investing and I did. Now lately there are certain behaviors about my gf that have been bothering me, she did them before but I didn’t care because I wasn’t taking her seriously at that time. As time went on I started having more feelings towards her and that’s why it started to affect me a little more. What bothers me a lot is when we’re gonna do something and she just disappears out of nowhere. We’re pretty busy so I don’t mind us getting our stuff done before but what bothers me is when she suddenly disappears without saying anything until last minute. Last week she did this and I told her how i wasn’t gonna put up with that because it feels like she doesn’t care and it’s wasting my time. We had a fight but we fixed it. Now today she hit me up at like 1 am and I replied because I kinda woke up to take a piss. Didn’t say much and fell asleep. She ignored my reply and at 3 am I was kinda feeling like hitting her up and talking to her. She was being pretty mean about the situation so I went to bed and told her to talk to me when she actually wants to. She was being nice but I was still bothered by her behavior. Just told her I thought she was being disrespectful and she just said to let it go and forget about it.

It still bothers me because she didn’t actually apologize, she just said she was having a rough day and that’s why she was being like that.

Now I don’t really know what to do, I feel like I just wanna take a break from her because lately this type of stuff has been bothering me more and I feel like she doesn’t respect me as before. Should I just fall back and distance myself or should i just tell her what’s up? Thank you guys.