We rarely see physical evidence TRP and it's easy to imagine that stories we hear are exaggerated unless you've experienced it yourself.

Remember, being Alpha is all about context (you may not be Alpha in certain settings while in others you might be). The following video is an example of a man who is the complete alpha in his context - an excellent dancer (Daniel Sanchez) at a dance convention. Note the following details:

  1. High SMV women literally vie with each other to have his attention (he is a known leader in his field)
  2. They take no offense at his dancing with multiple women sexually (power of social proof)
  3. He is dominant in every sense, guiding his partner in a pleasurable way for both (note particularly his style at 0:43)
  4. Look closely - you'll find the beta orbiters in the back watching the women they want getting wrecked by Chad the Dancer and being paralyzed by their own impotence.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fgmQ9F8mV28

tldr; Become Chad, work hard, excel in your context. (learning to dance doesn't hurt)