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Don't be like this guy. Bitterness and hate is not the way.

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February 11, 2014
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Title Don't be like this guy. Bitterness and hate is not the way.
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Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date February 11, 2014 2:35 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
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[–]FlashedBlaze 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed, life isn't fair. As if there was some driving force behind life that magically balances everything for everyone. Who do these guys think is going to take care of them? A woman? Their parents? Some "mystical" force? No you fucking morons! Only yourself.

[–]Number_103 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've seen a few of these guys videos. He brings up a good point every now and then, but for the most part he just seems to hate the shit out of women.

Even so, this is one of his better videos: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyenSX4XSZA

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think you've had a blue-pill relapse, bro.

[–]Robdogx9001 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We all can get a little misogynistic after being dumped or rejected. But you need to get over quickly cause it shows, and chases people(both genders) away. The best think one can do is make themselves busy and or peruse other people.

[–]GurneyHalleck85 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The MGTOW commentator "Barbarossa" (or "Bar Bar") is one of the most eloquent Red Pill youtube contributors -- he is a pleasure to listen to. You don't need to take his advice, he is pretty intelligent and enlightening about various gender issues. He has put out a lot of good stuff...and so has the user "Stardusk."

[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 12 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

I havn't watched any of his other videos. Maybe he is sptting solid gold in the others but this one is a sad sad turd.

And to call him RP is hillarious. I wish all the MGTOW ( more like pussies going there own way ) would do just that. Go their own way and STFU. Stay the fuck out of domains where the main message is self improvement and learning how to succeed in a harsh world.

The shit these guys bitch about and the way they do it is no different than the retarded shit feminists bitch shreik about.

You don't need to take his advice

What advise does he even offer? Ignore women? Be a bitter asshole who dresses like shit? Ignore the rules of the sexual market place? One way ticket to failure town. Yet people eat up his message becuase it allows them to fail and have a scapegoat. Just like feminists and far left wing peeps.

Man the fuck up and learn how to play life. Otherwise like I said, better off just jumping off a tower and killing yourself. Nobody will miss you.

[–]GurneyHalleck85 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Again, he merely offers an interesting perspective. In fact, what he says might just be a viable lifestyle for some men. He is pretty passionate but I find you painting him as some bitter loser pretty ridiculous and reminiscent of the shaming tactics so often used by feminists, i.e, any man who complains is a loser. People have posted his stuff before and while certain members found him too negative, almost everyone (however grudgingly) gave him respect and props for being eloquent and penetrating.

I've dealt with this same type of post actually the other day coming from another red-piller who was attempting to make this sub-reddit solely into some Real Social Dynamics-esque cult where we all drone about self-improvement and pick up. Look at the sidebar. Look at the links, such as "Sexual Utopia in Power." If you liked that essay (if you even ever bothered to read it -- hope it wasn't too long for you) then you'd understand why others might find the likes of Barbarossa and Stardusk interesting to listen to.

[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How can we distinguish between a low-SMV man lashing out at women for rejecting them and the disillusioned man who is angry at the system that has done him wrong?

I think all MGTOW fall into either category. One category seems justified, while the other is just sad and irritating.

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