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Don't ever fucking settle

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March 30, 2018
11 upvotes
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Title Don't ever fucking settle
Author

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Upvotes 11
Comments 7
Date March 30, 2018 9:53 PM UTC
(8 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/88e2nl/dont_ever_fucking_settle/
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[–]amedeo_modigliani1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I don't know how many times she cheated on me but I know it was in the double digits

Dude are you into cuckold porn by any chance? I'm serious, maybe you have fetish and don't know about it. Because this isn't normal, even if you were in love with her and she was your oneitis.

[–]TCMThommy1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude you aren't even 25. Your best years are going to come as long as you keep working on your path.
Just build your life and enjoy women as a consequence. You got some very valuable lessons. It may have cost you your savings but there is no alimony or child support involved. You are now free to build you.
At the same time, I truly hope your cautionary tale can reach some young bloods. However the unfortunate state is that it often takes an unfortunate event before people find themselves here.

[–]CapnPoot0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Strong story bro. It really puts things into perspective, and the ups and downs show how life is all about learning. Thanks for sharing

[–]TRPcez1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed. Any other young guys out there should read these types of stories. It takes the point "don't fucking settle" to another person's perspective

[–]me-faggot0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nice story. Glad you’re back to yourself again.

[–]themanthemythebeast0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

this made me cry. they are so cruel and need justice

[–]TomasoJew0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s called life and being a human. Falling in love will happen to anyone at least once in their lives. Sure, the situation sounds fucked and an earlier discovery of TRP would’ve saved time, pain, money, yourself, ect... These are the life lessons that keeps you going and make you a stronger individual. I think a good portion of this sub can somewhat relate to this story. Good stuff that you’re on the right track again man! Just never stub your toe against the same brick; girls.

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