I've been lurking TRP for a while now and I've found that it generally agrees with how I've always thought about the differences between men and women. I'm wondering, however, if there are female exceptions to the rules we subscribe to here.

For example, I've been involved with one girl for 5ish years, we aren't officially together, though we do that from time to time, and we both fuck other people and both know that we both fuck other people. She's cool with it and I'm cool with it, even though she knows that for every one guy she brings home (typically one a semester) I bring home 4-5 girls. Overall I find her to be my equal, she's as ambitious as I am, drives constantly towards self improvement and motivates me towards my own in the same type of language that a lot of posters here use, and most importantly doesn't take part in a lot of the bullshitty things women do, hamstering, shit tests, what have you.

This is obviously just a singular example, and I'm not really looking for input on my specific situation, just the concept in general that while everything we say here is correct, there may be some exceptions out there. What do you do when you come across them?

edit: one word thanks to /u/Cold_August