There has been a few posts lately discussing the number of sexual partners a woman admits to. What her Sexual Partner Number (SPN) meant in terms of prospective LTR. The biggest obstacle to accurately evaluating a woman is that they hide or lie about their true SPN. This set me thinking as to how to get this info from her.

I knew a direct approach wouldn't work. So last night lying in her bed after sex I asked a plate a series of strategic questions hidden withn a conversation that went something along the following manner.

Do you know how many women I had to go through before I finally found you? I hear women complain that there a not enough good men when there are heaps of them around but a "Cool Girl" is like a unicorn. This was designed to make her feel relaxed and confident like a Special Snowflake and to throw her off the trail yet challenge her into a Men V Women debate. She took the bait.

With clever questioning, promting and with me calling BullShit, interjecting and giving my side of the dating scene to her responses to make it seem like a coversation I discovered...

In you Hey Day how many nights a week she would go out? 3. You're a good looking girl how many guys approached her? 1-5 But these were always Creeps and she never dated them. You have high standards how many guys were datable? 1 in 10. IF these guys were creeps who did she date? Guys she met through friends and other activities. Plus when she went out the guys she was sending "signals to", They also rarely noticed or approached. (1 every 3 nights out = 1 per week.) ( Listen up guys you're missing the signals and approaching the wrong girls) When they did approach, 1 in 3 went on a date. She didn't say it directly but "some" I suspected 1 in 3 of the other guys got a One Night Stand. These guys are excluded in her SPN. Say 1 ONS every 3 weeks Total 17/yr.

She only went out about once a month with a new guy. Most of them were jerks. 1 in 3 turned into short term or LTR (she had sex with them) I dont know if the others missed out or were ONS, Assume 1 in 3. Say 1 guy every 1.5 mths. Total 8/yr.

When did you settle down? Tells She has been dating for 20 years. Discount for LTR and assume she was faithful. (unlikley) Assume she was single 35% of the time leaves She was on the Carousel for 7 years.

Total SPN = 17+8 = 25x7 = 175 WTF!!!

This does not include her college hook-up's, FWB's PUA's and Alphas who gamed her, wild holiday flings, and kinky MMF's spontaneous Gina Tingles and whatever else she simply choses to forget.

This is a self described Good Girl not like her slutty friends. She has high standards and only 1 in 10 guys are datable and of these 1 in 3 are "Fuckable" Her hamster only counts the Fuckable Dates she went on 8x7 = 56 and since she believes she only fucks 1 in 3 In her head her SPN = 18.

Yep this sounds about what she will admit to.

Note : Some of the intel was gathered over the time. her age etc. Length of LTR's etc. Some things were a best guess by reading her signs. These were used to fill in the missing pieces.