Summary: Girl I hooked up with tries to throw me off when I invite her over. Maintain frame and push straight through without giving a fuck.

Body: A few weeks ago I met some girl at a bar and brought her home. Since then I've hit her up maybe once each week trying to hang out, but was having a hard time finding a good time for both of us. Yesterday I texted her and was very bold and straight forward. Her and I both know I just want to fuck so why am I going to beat around the bush. After a little bit of back and forth I invite her over. She responds with, "I actually have a dinner date tonight". That threw me for a second and before I responded I remembered to maintain frame. I respond back, "That sounds nice, have fun! What are you doing later this week?" She then tells me that she was uncomfortable randomly fucking me that night and that's out of character, but she might want to see me again she's just a little shy if she's not drunk. After 20 mins of not responding she texts me again saying that she would love to see me, just a little unsure about coming over. I told her I'd be at the bar we met at on Saturday and to "stop by and get a drink" she said she'll be there and hopes to see me.

Lesson learned: maintaining frame can turn a situation around just how you want it.