Am 24, started spinning this 33 divorced single mom. Told her right from the get go I dont want to date, marry or have anything to do with your children. If any of that comes up I'm ready to drop her. She's blonde and still cute. Very close to wall but knows this might be her last hurrah. So she's being freaky.

A short backstory before I continue. I've never lasted long. Yes I'm aware this isn't NoFap. Deal with it. I've worked on getting better and have made progress. Always been a little nervous about my probable inability to perform so I always made excuses why I wouldn't fuck a chick. Been reading TRP for a few months. Before I even realized it, I was driving to this chicks house for some fun where as in the past I wouldn't have even dared go out of fear of embarrassment. But I went. Told myself that If I fail, my life will go on just fine and PE isn't going to destroy my life. Well it happened. i laughed it off as best I could and she was a little disappointed but didn't really mind too much.

I leave to go meet up with friends to go to a Tilted Kilt.(Think Hooters) At this point I tell them the story and we have some laughs about it. Always good to have good bros to help you laugh off shit like that. My close friend is the head chef. He and the manager share an apartment together and I had just helped them move last week. Social proof right off the bat.

Anyway. Figure Ill try to pick up a bartender as shes cute and I thought "No rejection can possibly beat the embarrassment I suffered earlier." So i went in hard. Teasing, Insinuating her tattoos were basic white girl bullshit. Gave her fake names, challenged her authority as a bartender when she told me I couldnt put my drink on a specific spot on the bar. I was in the zone, without fear. Nothing could be worse than earlier. My friends are sort of in awe. They get girls but I don't think they've ever seen me go in as hard as I was and they were flabberghasted. Haha.

Whenever I got a response I didn't like or she walked away I didn't get all needy like I would have normally. Instead I kept talking to my friends and joking around with the manager whenever he came by. About an hour into being there, at this point she knows I'm cocky and confident, and that I'm a challenge that she has to work for. So i call her over and she asks what I want. Instead of trying some weird workaround way to get her number, I straight up just say "I actually just want your number." She tilts her head, smiles, chuckles, and walks away. My friends start cracking up. "Denied!!" "Ouch!". I laughed, but not because I got blown off. I laughed because, for some reason, I just knew she was going to give it to me.

I told them, "No. Just wait. She's gonna give it to me." "How do you know dude?" They replied. I said "Think about it. She gets hit on ALL the time. She barely knows me. She's not gonna give her number out to some guy she just met. She doesn't wanna seem like a slut so she's saving some face. So shes going back to talk with the other bartenders to get their opinions. Then shell come back and give it to me. just watch." I wasnt too worried about whether or not it would actually happen. Like I mentioned, I was too carefree to really give a shit after earlier. But lo and behold, 5 minutes later she walks by where we are sitting at the bar towards some other customers, but as she walks by, she drops this blank receipt in front of me with her number on the back. I wasn't surprised so I just put it in my pocket like it was no big deal. The last thing you wanna do is start high fiving your bros or some shit like you just won the lottery. You might as well be screaming "Oh my god im so lucky. I'm a beta who never gets laid!" If you did that.

Had a great rest of the night, flirted with the other bartenders, and then found out that the manager is a Redpiller too. It was crazy cuz I had just recently introduced my friend the chef to TRP as well. So it was just a bunch of Redpill guys together making short work of these cute bartenders. They never stood a chance.

Yea I'm bragging cuz I'm fucking happy with my progress. A few months ago I NEVER would have been able to flirt or tease a bartender like I did. Especially not get her number. Regardless of how good you are, bartenders can be tough since they get hit on all the time.

So believe some random internet stranger or not. But that was my night. Cheers.