I don't want to bore you, but I've been involved with the community for almost two years now. Never posted maybe commented once. But today, after reading all these field reports, realized I'm the beta.

I'm over weight but not ugly. I started swimming to look good This gave me confidence to ask out the Japanese girl. Now when I say "ask out" it was implied. I asked her to the movies, she agreed. No escalation, hardly any flirting. After all I have to respect her. At the end of the day, I dropped her home. I waited in the car as she got out-I'm cringing as I write this - and she says she had a good time. I leave and later she texts me saying she had a good time. A day later I send her a text. Dread game right? I ask her out again and now it's been a day and she's not replying. Oh god. I'm a beta. I sent a Facebook msg to a girl I know, HB6 to go on a date with me. I'm going to learn through failing. Japanese girl isn't meeting my needs ( not responding ) so I'm going to find someone who does.