I met this chick at a bar and got her number. I texted her on Tuesday and we decided on the logistics for Thursday but the problem was she agreed to all logistics but when I said is this place okay? I got radio silence.

I could be a little bitch and text her again about so is that location good? Instead I deleted her number and nexted her.

Thursday rolls around and she says "are we still good to meet." I actually had made other plans in the interim to see a friend who was in from out of town. I responded "I can't make it tonight, maybe next week?" and added in the same message " it would have been helpful had you said "sounds good" on my last text.

Her message then apologized and said she forgot to text back and thought she had and was very sorry. I said great and we made plans to meet tomorrow.

Here is an important lesson on why keeping frame is a big deal. I would never pre-RP scold her a little for not saying "sounds good". However I felt it was appropriate to show my time is valuable. Furthermore because she didn't respond, I would have likely cancelled plans with her on Thursday no matter what even if I didn't make alternate plans so that I can hold frame. Her late text on Thursday after giving me radio silence and me going would look very needy in my mind. Furthermore girls like to be put in their place. Me telling her what to do next time in a tone that wasn't rude but one that told her hey I am the boss made her respect me more.

Edit - Tuesday rolls around. I text are you good for today. Then she texts back yeah for 9 at this place. I am like wtf I already decided on a place and time ( see why you guys above see it's important for someone to confirm the place). Anyways I am not going to allow her to switch up the venue like this. I reiterated my time and place. The date will probably be off. I did make a concession for a place somewhere in the middle of her venue to my venue.

People are just assholes today. I hate that shit. How the fuck dare you change a time and place and just text it as if we didn't agree to a different one beforehand. I don't even think this is a women thing. Just someone being an ahole. Im assuming this new venue is right next to her place (the old one was next to me but that's the advantage of being a dude is picking the venue)

As a man, I often choose a location that is very beneficial for lay logistics. This new one that she suggested is poor coupled with a late time and my chance for the bone is very low. She probably wants a free drink (which I wasn't going to pay anyways). Anyways game doesn't matter when someones a bitch.