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Friendly reminder, never get married!

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December 6, 2014
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Title Friendly reminder, never get married!
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Upvotes 0
Comments 8
Date December 6, 2014 11:09 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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[–]TekkomanKingz 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

Thanks for completely disregarding importing a foreign wife. Particularly one with prior work experience (so you dont have to sign a contract with the federal government as their "sponsor") and you can also throw in a balanced prenup (for which there is no spousal support during separation or alimony) for about $1k for good measure.

Broad spectrum comments like these cause young males to think there is only one option. With enough foresight you can deftly use intelligence and dread to control the situation with legal impunity and get the economic advantage as well.

When you import a wife under these circumstances you hold most of the power in the relationship and through effective use of dread and knowledge of the law you can make sure she behaves properly, proactively killing any dissent or innate Hypergamy lurking within.

Now this is all preparation for WORST case scenario. Choosing the right woman (admittedly 100x easier abroad than at home) remains more than HALF the battle. You can also disavow paternity immediately (even if you are legally presumed to be the father as the husband in most states) with a paternity test ordered within the first year of the child's birth if you suspect infidelity and a love child from a side tyrst. Just have them discreetly take a prick after birth. The mother will not know and will be busy recovering.

There are legal remedies to many situations but the key to successfull marriage (or any social relationship period) is vigilance and proactiveness. A wife that knows you come to the table prepared with plans A, B, C and D will not try and oppose your authority let alone cheat with a Gorilla boy from down the block because your cold hearted intelligence will make her labia sweat and her mind feel safer with you than without you.

The benefits of a properly structured marriage with clearly defined TRADITIONAL gender roles for a (self-aware) cunning and deft Man outweighs the single life of endlessly gaming dumb young cunts by leaps and bounds. A man can have is energies and finances freed up for greater tasks and achievements if he isnt paying for hookers cab monies or thousands of "first dates" well into his 50's. Provided he hasnt subscribed to the 1950's AMERICAN model of marriage in 2015 and beyond.

More than one way to skin a cat.

[–]Apollo1982 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think this topic deserves a separate posting. Especially want to read more on the post marriage economic advantage since women just spend spend spend.

[–]TekkomanKingz 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, AMERICAN women spend, spend spend.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

There have been posts on it, people just want to talk and not read. This sub reads like it's a fucking default sub lately.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Foreign women can be a gamble as well. Awalt, even the foreign ones become westernized very easily.

[–]I_Cum_Blood_666 1 points1 points1 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

This is extremely ignorant. With a strong, developed understanding of frame, you can find a great monogomous partner if that's what you chose to do. Some people, like myself, lived the bachelor life and chose to settle down with someone they had a ton in common with that was providing a great constant flow of vagina. The key when married is to keep her in check and let her know that she is still disposable through divorce. That way, you can maintain a great monogamous partner. Rollo Tomassi has written groundbreaking RP books, check the sidebar. Oh, by the way, he's married.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you read anything that's posted here?

Having something in common with a chick is irrelevant. It means nothing. If anything it means that you permit her to set the frame in which your relationship exists.

She isn't the one who's disposable by divorce, you are. She will lose nothing and gain everything.

[–]nesshie91-2 points 11 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

Rule No. 1 - Never fall in love

Rule No.2 - Never get married

Rule No.3 - Live the muthafuckin Red Pill Life !

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