EDIT: Sorry about the format, had to copy/paste and didnt see it ate all the spaces and lines.
tl;dr:
ex tries to work her way back to me after seeing how well im doing
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In my last thread a month ago I explained how I told my ex "not to contact me again". Told her that there's no point in us talking since it will keep us both from moving on. She agreed not to contact me again. About twelve days ago I left for summer work, within which I constantly meet new people (mostly girls) which she is aware of because of mutual friends etc.
I come home to a new message of a printscreened memory of our first picture one year ago. No words to accompany it, and even that message was sent from another account (she still has me blocked from her main one). I must admit that after seeing that message I checked her instagram, something I had not done in two months. It sucks to have done that, but I did not (and will not) reply.
Most of us who have expiriences with ex-LTRs know their paterns. Hers was to send a bait-message like that (with no real value) and then follow it with another one if I did not bite the hook (in this example, im waiting for a phone text of "I wanted to let you know.." etc). Maybe it doesnt happen this time, but if it does, I hope im strong enough to not bend.
I must admit a small part of me wants to reach out to her, probably because even tho I tried my best to game girls at work I had no luck (= wasn't good enough). Plus she's really really hot. So it might be my boner talking. But Im keeping a strong state of mind and refusing to crawl back.
During work ive lost a couple of pounds and now that Im back im ready to seriously hit the gym. Even tho I didnt get anywhere with the couple of girls i tried gaming I can see myself improving and learning from my mistakes. Just wanted to share since Im feeling a little proud of myself.
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