Hello everyone, this is my first post here after lurking a few months. So first a little self introduction. I'm a 17 year old who stumbled on Red Pill concepts by myself 2 years ago after a rather messed up pseudo relationship thing and a lot of thinking. I'm over the hate period, and a few months ago I got into 'official' Red Pill knowledge. I travel a lot which has helped with seeing different kind of women and in a month I'll be off to Lebanon. I heard the girls there are of very good quality, anyone confirm?
Anyways I noticed there is very little information for early adopters of the red pill and I hope this guide can clear up things for a few early birds. So without further ado here is my guide on gaming in high school for the introvert.
By definition and introvert is shy but that isn't a good enough reason to impact your game, shyness is a form of fear and like all forms of fear it can't be fully erased, nor should it be, but it can be controlled and lessened.
I prefer to describe an introvert as someone who loses energy in social situations and thus needs some time alone to gather it back.
What this entails for game is that an introvert will have a hard time dealing with more than 3 plates (numbers may vary from person to person).
Even an outgoing introvert who can engage people easily, has interesting conversation will find his energy rapidly sapped by women, even introverted ones due to the amount of initial energy needed to get them to open up.
The reason is that women are rather boring in the sense that they rarely add value to an interaction rather seeking and leaching value to entertain themselves giving the man the role of fueling said interaction with his value.
In this way an introvert's value is a product of his finite social energy he thus needs to be extremely efficient in his consumption.
The best way being to keep the number of women he regularly interacts with in control. That might mean approaching less women but in return being able to spend more energy on each and seeking multiple STR instead of ONS or LTR before being ready.
Now being 17 years old my views might not apply much to the introverts in college and beyond but seeing the lack of RP 'guides' for the early adopters I will now apply this onto high school.
But first remember that in high school your interactions will barely remain long enough to affect you much, your main goal during this time is to improve yourself mentally and physically as well as to build solid fundamentals. Everything else at this point in your life should come second.
That means working out (lifting, calisthenics), and also doing a sport for the physical and cultivating yourself by reading great books and IMO knowing what happens around the world for the mental. You should view high school as training grounds. As for the fundamentals, they might differ for each guy but essentially you need to pay attention in classes because what you learn now is needed, atleast for getting into college, and building a strong level of social intelligence, this is what I'll develop.
The average highschool introvert has a small group of friends, some obligatory interactions and that's pretty much it.
Realize this, in college that kind of existence will only penalize you. You must get started with meeting new people if only guys for now. All sorts of people, the jocks, the nerds, the music fans and whatever other stereotypical groups you can imagine. Don't judge them, the only thing they can do is open up your way of thinking, but use your judgement and avoid those bad for you. This will allow you to get used to speaking to different people about different things.
For the women it's a bit harder, you're at a point in time where girls SMV is generally higher than boys of the same age so having a good physical appearance helps a lot. Also with your now larger and more diverse group of friends you will have varied social circles from which to pick girls which is easier than approaching ones you don't know or don't even have classes with.
And here's a tip, it's okay to go for girls a year lower than yours.
Now for the introvert specifics you should avoid gaming (or training your game) on more than ~5 girls at a time. The reasons for this are if you have too many girls and want to cut a few off it's very hard to do in high school since you will still be seeing them in school and secondly if you game 5 girls that is still five girls who you'll see almost on a daily basis, for some you can go a couple days with just a hi when passing but at some point depending on how good you game you will be spending your precious social energy so 5 girls is a good place to start. 5 is also sufficient for a solid reputation (it also depends on the type of girls, you should atleast go for 7 and up), reputation being valuable currency that will attract other girls and even more so the ones you already have.
So there are my thoughts on applying game in highschool for the introvert, the writing is probably unrefined and rough but I would gladly accept all constructive criticism and opinions on the matter and especially your own stories that corroborate or deny this guide.
Thanks for reading hoping it helped.
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