Let me start first by prefacing that I have been lurking TRP for months now, picking up advice from this gold mine. Applying some of these tips to my personality has seemed to improve my overall SMV. So there is nothing but a tip off my hat to the community.

What I am asking for advice on is more aimed towards finding alternatives and/or solutions for a smaller subset of the male population, who had the worse luck of the draw when it came to genetics or birth.

For some men, it's autism, bipolarity, muscular degeneration, or even being blind. But there are solutions or alternatives to each and every one of them - look at the fictional aspect to Matt Murdock, who is probably a godsend to women that flock to him.

I'm deafened. I don't hear out of my left, and my right is now down to about 50% on a good day. So I am discovering there are very little return in going to bars, clubs, where being able to hear or perceive IOIs are crucial to getting laid. However, I find that this has also benefited me in some ways as I don't have to deal with 90% of the loquacious nonsense and bullshit that travels through the word of mouth in this modern society.

The issue here for us is how can the steps to getting laid work for those of us cannot game as easily as the rest? This has been a paradox that I still have not discerned and would hope TRP could offer suggestions.

FWIW, I'm in my earlier 30s, so I assume most of the women in my generation have hit post-wall and thus this impacts my need to be selective. I don't think I score near a perfect on the SMV, but I am fairly confident in scoring high. I climb, run, have a cut out shape to make up for my disability a long time ago.