How did I get beta without realizing it

THE_StrongBoy · 2017-06-02T01:27:26+00:00

The cycle of human mating goes like this

girl fucks alpha, gets pregnant, turns him beta, locks him down as a provider, gets unattracted, goes to find other alphas to make babies and have the beta take care of them.

It's why I am so glad that I wasn't a natural alpha. I wasn't incel but I had like 1 girlfriend in highschool, but it led me here. Now for the rest of my life, I won't have to worry about this happening to me. I can stay fit and healthy fucking young girls into my fifties whereas nattie alphies slay for a few years then get unknowingly cucked.

BestSC86 · 2017-06-02T02:22:06+00:00

Sounds like you overdid the asshole.....

Then when you went all wussy beta on her, she felt you had been lying to her about being the dominant male she thought you were when you were really just being an asshole. That is why she got so disgusted and pissed.

That is common among women, especially young ones, mistaking the asshole for some sort of alpha..since they have very similar appearances.

And why so many young women end up jaded...all the assholes they mistake for alphas further fucks up their wiring in determining is he a real alpha or just a asshole.....and why many just give up then go looking for a chubby chode to marry and settle.

straittripping · 2017-06-02T04:37:05+00:00

sounds like you lost status when you finished high school and your frame crumbled as a result

mallardcove · 2017-06-02T00:43:51+00:00

You become beta because of scarcity mentality. That is almost always the underlying reason. I didn't even read your post and I am sure that is the core of it. No one with abundance mentality would write that entire screed.

maxrp · 2017-06-02T07:09:16+00:00

she said she needed some space

this is one of the most common manipulative break up statements, ie breaking up without actually saying or them realising until too late. They already got a branch to swing and now need you out the way long enough.

which i bombarded her with calls and messages

it doesn't matter if it was even one call, now she can say you're "obssessed" to all her family/friends, obsessed = unpredictable and dangerous.

cold tone I disgusted her and to not call her ever again

now you're officially the creepy guy who needs help, cueue restraining order.

But it was too late

yep she already got her new man to take up all your "no-contact time". He's already framing everything you do as beta loser.

See this whole episode as something to learn from for future relationships you can now see the red flags, the maniputlation. You will be in control now.

1 month later she settled with another guy

That guy is an idiot if he just lets a girl settle in with him after a month. I suspect its been going on longer behind your back anyway.

Thanks for sharing your write up. Theres no truer saying than: Love makes you blind! Its really not your fault or hers or the guy shes with, its just lifes design. Now reinvent yourself RP through lifting, learning and practice. You are now free again to learn what life is and become the most awesome version of yourself. Please dont fall in love with the next one that comes along, you need to stay firmly on the primary path of improvement.

Title	How did I get beta without realizing it
Author	ceswk
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	June 2, 2017 12:31 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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