I came to this realization that texting is fucking dreadful if not done correctly. A lot of people use this as a normal flow of texting convo.

Boy - hey how are you? Girl- im good,just watching tv. you? Boy - same. what show are you watching? Girl- house wifes of new york you?

The constant adjacency pairing in the conversation fucking drags it out and conveys that you are trying to hard to converse. She also has an equal footing in the flow of the conversation. As you answer Her assertions. I normally just find this type of convo forced and boring even though i initiated it. And normally put excuses to get out. "Brb gonna take a shower".

I realised this while texting side chick A yesterday. I didnt wanna repeat the errors of my blue pill. So I just added banter,ignored some of her questions and I lead the flow of the conversation.

It was fun tbh being a general dick. I wasnt scared to ask direct questions and subtly mock her. It wasnt drawn out. I didnt reply instantly to her texts.I didnt feel the need to make excuses to pull out of the convo because I MADE the convo. I could change topics and gave her little power in leading.

This is an example of an interesting convo.

Boy - you havent seen me in 2 days. You must be dying. Girl - yeah my life is just hanging by a thread. 😕 Boy - yes it it. Btw anyone who uses emoticons is a straight up retard. Girl - lol Boy - When people text lol a baby in africa dies. Boy - btw i might send your picture of to vougue it could totally be their front page.

Banter No question marks I lead the flow.

Ticks these three boxes and it should be good. What I find hard about texting is how sarcasm comes across. Side chick B hasnt spoke to me in a while because of a text I sent that was intended to be sarcastic but instead just came out plain cringey. Also dont let the bulk of your communications be through a screen. Invite her down to grab a nandos or starbucks. Go to her estate and chill. Do things and experince the world together. Im not going to do any of this yet. As I havent found a girl that is worth risking my emotions for. But improve your texting game lads and you will see yourself with a lot more success.