First off I'm 27. I'm at point in my life where meeting , talking , hanging out and being intimate with women have become pretty simple. What makes it easy for me is putting women in 2 categories

  1. Women That make my dick hard
  2. Friends

Obviously we all have female friends at work, school , clubs. And we all have some sexy ass friends that really aren't giving us that "oh shit" 😏 feeling when we see them.

The ones that make me approach, my whole persona is different because she's not a friend and we don't do friend stuff while we're together.

This brings up the problem for me Mentally, so logically I'm like : 1. We had a nice conversation and I got her # 2. If she gave me her # then she's already pictured in her head us on a date or fucking

Once I'm with her, I'm basically:

1.telling her why I went at her and got her # 2. All the things I want to do to her and with her 3. Connecting on little things here and there

All this is done in a respectful way. But it's all done through SUBTEXT and reading between the lines. I read her body language the whole night and once she's ready I'm ready.

THE BIGGEST PROBLEM

The topics and facts about her life throughout the night don't matter at all because we're not even speaking English it's all in word play and subtext

So I'm excited because I'm satisfying a biological need. But the emotions are starting to fade and get stale

Yes I enjoy the time we spend together joking and whatever but ultimately I know what I'm there for. But at the end of the day: 1) I really don't know her 2) she's another "person" not "woman" in my life so I have to feel her out just like everybody else. 3) after we both get what we want we go back to living our own busy lives. So you really only get that excited feeling for the first few days. And that's what I'm missing.

So how do you guys keep it fresh? Some of you have things you do all the time that works. I just don't see the point in reinventing the wheel.