How well does removing your attention actually work?

stickfiguresk · 2014-09-14T11:17:39+00:00

She has to want your validation for ignoring her to accomplish anything. If you're that boring average guy that doesn't pay her attention, she's forgotten about you immediately. If youre the cute dude with the mustang that made her laugh and embarrassed yesterday and now you're ignoring her texts, she's thinking, "did I do something wrong?", "is he fucking somebody prettier than me?", "why am I not worth his time?"

Though, if she's constantly being approached by dudes of the same value as you, then she's probably not going to give that much of a shit. It's all about standing out and acting when the time is appropriate.

[deleted] · 2014-09-14T16:24:36+00:00

It only works if she has a reason to care about your attention in the first place.

tracer123 · 2014-09-14T16:35:02+00:00

She is looking for someone who isn't thirsty, someone who has options, someone who doesn't care if she declines him because he can hook up easily enough. This is because women want to think that they are "getting a good deal" in the sexual market. If you are doing all of TRP ideals you'll stand a good chance of being in with a shot of distinguishing yourself. Once you've got the initial IOI's you can start to (and in fact must) introduce dread.

FortunateBum · 2014-09-15T01:27:06+00:00

You have to signal high status first (slightly too high for her, preferably) and then continue to verify and signal this high status. One (probably important) way is limited attention.

[deleted] · 2014-09-15T14:26:52+00:00

When it works, its dynamite.

But often, it simply wont.

Particularly when you're talking about plates rather than LTRs, because you inherently don't have anything particular to offer a plate beyond sex, and she can get that far easier than she can get commitment.

Generally speaking the only way it will work is if either:

A: Your SMV dwarfs hers MASSIVELY, to the point where realistically she cant do better than you, and all the validation she receives is from guys worse than you. This is a poor solution since it means you're going to be batting pretty fucking low since most 4s can easily get validation and a quick pump n dump from a 9. I mean fuck, one of my former plates said it best "I like to think i can play with 10s" "Good luck getting them to stick around" "Maybe i dont expect them to stick around, i just like getting fucked by hot guys"

B: You have some sort of characteristic she craves that goes beyond your raw SMV. That same plate, who knows she can do physically better, hell she has a photo vault spank bank of the 9s and 10s shes either fucked or turned down, with huge cocks as well, craved dominance. Dominate that girl, make her feel like a whore, and you will have her forever. Raw SMV made very little impact on her. As a result when someone who made her feel that way walked, she crumbled like a house of cards. Regardless of the fact that this person was massively inferior to many of the guys shes fucked before, and could fuck now.

C: She feels you're likely the best shot she has of something "Respectable" ie, you probably arent the highest SMV she can get validation from, but you are the highest she can get who will introduce her to your mother, give her children, "Treat her right" etc. Not necessarily beta bux, though obviously it can be.

Title	How well does removing your attention actually work?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	7
Comments	5
Date	September 14, 2014 10:55 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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