Almost a decade ago, Bonecrcker described how women have a fantasy in their minds about the perfect Superman boyfriend. Ever imagine you had the powers of Goku? They imagine a Prince Charming boyfriend who's equally amazing. For example, they read 50 Shades of Grey and expect to meet a mysterious billionaire. They measure up every guy and, surprise surprise, none of us are larger than life like the characters of their fantasies (rather, we are real life). This is hypergamy in a nutshell, yet the word hadn't been invented yet to my knowledge.

http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/03/bonecrcker-80-binge-and-purge.html

Within that page is a link where he talks about female solipsism, long before the manosphere started using the term (again, to my knowledge). He calls it the fantasy land, and women always choose to live within their imaginations over real life.

http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2010/10/bonecrker-47-living-in-la-la-land.html

The pragmatic advice would be to get a woman emotional so she forgets you're a real human and not Superman, and capture her imagination so she can further run with it. The two are tied together.